Does anyone else get wrapped up in all of the videos on social media showing how to make all these adorable Christmas crafts? This happens to me every year and it has turned me into a hoarder. I see this cute idea. I go out and buy all of the stuff to make it. Then life gets in the way and it never actually gets made. I have this whole pile of unfinished or never started crafts that are taking up space in my office. They aren’t all Christmas stuff either. Let’s not forget all the times I have seen something that is so cute that I could just buy, but I don’t spend the money on it because I think I can just make it myself and never do. Another conundrum is when I go to the Target Dollar spot or a craft store and I see some cute thing that I think I can turn into something even cuter to give as a gift. I buy it and then never get around to doing that cute idea I had. I am a crafter at heart. I love crafting, but I just never have the time to really devote to it. I guess I come by it honest. My mom is the same way, only about 1000 times worse. We have teased her about being a hoarder for years. We both hoard crafting stuff. It’s really sad. I honestly do wish that I had the time to complete all of the ideas I have, but I just don’t. Other things totally take priority. The only time things really get made is if it is for someone other than myself or someone is paying me to make something. The things I want for myself always get pushed to the back burner.
Honestly the two hobbies that bring me joy are crafting and reading, and I don’t spend enough time doing either. It took forcing myself to choose a book to read to write about on the blog each month to get me to actually take the time to do it. In reality, I should be reading 3-4 books a month instead of just one. Maybe if I turn one day of the month into craft day on the blog, some of these projects will get done. It’s a thought that maybe I will consider. Let’s be real though. It’s probably not going to happen. It takes time to craft, and I just don’t have that kind of time. Maybe one day when my kids are grown and gone, I will get around to doing the things that I love.
I feel like most moms will say that they don’t have time for hobbies. I know I have said it a million times myself. No matter what your hobby is, I bet you don’t devote nearly enough time to it. We always put others before ourselves, especially our kids. It is just in our nature as women. While I am sure that caring for your children brings you joy, it isn’t the same kind of joy that you get from a hobby. I think it is important that we do try to make time for ourselves to do the things that we love. Even if it is only one time a month, it is better than not at all. We have to take the time to fill our cups with joy. It is ok to be selfish every now and then, because it will make you a better mom and spouse in the long run. I feel like it is important to our mental health. I don’t know about you, but when I am actually engaged in one of my hobbies like reading or crafting, it is like an escape. It gives me a chance to focus on something fun and easy and not on the day-to-day hustle and bustle. It gives my brain a break, and that is a break that we need sometimes to stay sane. It can’t always be about others. We have to focus on ourselves sometimes. I know for some of you it may have been a really long time since you even thought about what your hobbies are or what things you enjoy doing outside of everyday life. I encourage you to think about it and then take the time to do it one day this month. I know that I need to take my own advice and take the time to read and craft. I know that it will be hard to do, but I am going to make a promise to myself to do better. I am going to carve out time that is designated for doing one of my hobbies because I know that I need it. You need it too. I can guarantee it!
Anchored and Rambling,