Both of my daughters have really long hair, and I can’t stand it. It isn’t because I don’t like long hair. Instead it is because neither of them takes good care of their hair, it always looks like a stringy mess, and I’m the one who has to deal with it for competitions. My oldest pretty much keeps hers in a ponytail 90% of the time anyway, so what is the point of having it so long? My youngest daughter’s hair is so bad that you can barely get a brush through it most days. I swear I will fight through brushing it to get through all the tangles only to have it a tangled mess again within 5 minutes. It drives me nuts. Neither of them like getting their hair cut either and actually only get their hair cut about twice a year when I have to force them to go. Today was one of those days. You would have thought that I was making the lady shave my youngest daughter’s head by the way she was acting. She did not want anything cut from her hair. She won’t listen to anything I have to say about how your hair needs to be cut to remain healthy and for it to grow. The stylist even tried telling her the same thing, but my daughter wasn’t having any of it. Thankfully, my oldest has learned to just accept it and allow hers to be trimmed. That’s the thing, too. I was only forcing them to have a trim. It wasn’t like they were cutting 6 inches of their hair off. I think both of them ended up getting about 2 inches cut off. You honestly can’t even tell that they even got a haircut, but my youngest was furious. She was texting me the entire time that her hair was being cut saying that it was too short now. As we walked to the car afterward, she said it was too much and that her hair was now ugly. Her friend that was with us told her that you couldn’t even tell that she got it cut. My child just fussed at her friend saying that she was only saying that because I told her to, which I did not do. You really can’t tell. Her hair is still ridiculously long, and I will still have to fight the tangles.
Why do simple things like a haircut have to be so difficult? Where did I go wrong with that? I sure wish I knew the answer. I think they must have gotten it from their father. I seem to remember stories of him refusing to get his hair cut as a child and pictures of him with longer hair. LOL! We all know that it didn’t come from me because I have shared the horrible pictures of me with the short, permed hair forced on me as a child!!! I still have nightmares about it. Ha ha! At least I am not forcing them to get a perm! No matter where it came from or wherever we went wrong, my kids have to get their hair trimmed every now and then. It is just a fact of life. I feel like it will continue to be a fight, at least with the youngest, for years to come. Maybe one day we will see eye to eye, but I doubt it! Until then, I will continue to drag the youngest kicking and screaming to the salon, and I will continue to pull half of her hair out trying to detangle it every day. Someone please tell me that I am not alone in this and that it is worth the fight! I may loose my mind!