I am sorry that I didn’t get this up yesterday like I said I was going to try to do. My whirlwind travel did not allow me enough time to finish it enough that I felt good about posting, so here it is today. Better late than never, right?
Our February Book Club book was Left Neglected (Amazon) by Lisa Genova. I chose this book because it was by the same author that wrote Still Alice (Amazon), and I really enjoyed that book. This book did not disappoint either. I actually found myself relating to the main character a lot. The story centers around a woman named Sarah who is at the top of the world. She has the job, the family, the house, the nanny, and even the vacation home. Her days were scheduled from the moment she woke up until the moment her head hit the pillow at night and then some. She was practically married to her job and spent the majority of her time on being the best of the best and moving up the corporate ladder. Everything was great in her mind, until it all came to a crashing halt. One car ride, one attempt to make a call while driving, and a devastating crash that almost killed her left Sarah with a brain injury called Left Neglect. She suddenly had no awareness of the left side of her body or that left side of the world and her surroundings. The story follows her journey to overcome her injury, retrain her brain, and to figure out what her new normal would be.
The beginning of this story made me nod my head yes over and over again. I was living that life just a few short years ago. I devoted everything in me to my job and being the absolute best in my field. I let it control me and everything I did. I forgot what was important just like Sarah. She kind of gave me the impression that her view of being perfect was very similar to mine. Thankfully, it didn’t take a life altering accident for me to realize that way of thinking was skewed. While my journey to the place I am now was not as tragic as hers, I found myself seeing similarities in her discovery of who she was, who she had become, and who she really wanted to be. Here is an excerpt that hit home for me because I had very similar ideas about my life.
“Ever since business school, I’ve had my head down, barreling a thousand miles an hour, wearing the flesh of each day down to the bone, pointed down one road toward a single goal. A successful life. And not just run-of-the-mill success. The kind of success that my fellow elite classmates would envy, the kind that my professors would cart out to future students as a shining example of achievement, the kind that even the exceptionally prosperous citizens of Welmont would aspire to, the kind that Bob would be proud of. “
Then this realization that was also similar to mine, and I feel like it could have been something that came directly from my mouth not so long ago.
“And I’m starting to wonder. What else is there? Maybe success can be something else, and maybe there’s another way to get there. Maybe there’s a different road for me with a more reasonable speed limit.”
I highly recommend this book. It is an easy light read and story that could teach us all a thing or two.
I couldn’t be more excited about my pick for March. It is a book that I have been waiting on for what seems like forever! It is being released in a few short days, and I preordered it months ago. I am sure you can probably take a good guess as to what it is because I have talked about it many times before. If you guess that it is by my imaginary BFF, Rachel Hollis, you would be correct! Girl, Stop Apologizing is almost here and I CANNOT WAIT! I hope that you all have already read Girl, Wash Your Face, because it is phenomenal. I know that this new one is going to be just as great, if not better. I have already heard excerpts of it from Rachel herself during her live videos every morning on Instagram and Facebook and it’s so good. The book releases on March 5. Here is the publisher’s description of the book:
“In Girl, Stop Apologizing, #1 New York Times bestselling author and founder of a multimillion-dollar media company, Rachel Hollis sounds a wake-up call. She knows that many women have been taught to define themselves in light of other people–whether as a wife, mother, daughter, or employee–instead of learning how to own who they are and what they want. With a challenge to women everywhere to stop talking themselves out of their dreams, Hollis identifies the excuses to let go of, the behaviors to adopt, and the skills to acquire on the path to growth, confidence, and believing in yourself.”
Will you join me in reading this book on our way to self discovery? I can’t wait to get started!
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